Blog | Relationship Help for Minnesota Couples & New Parents

This blog is for Minnesota couples who are fighting about the same thing for the hundredth time, or barely talking since the baby came. I write about what's actually going on underneath those fights and what to do about it. I'm Evon Inyang, a Minnesota couples therapist and most of my week is spent with couples in exactly this spot especially new and expecting parents.

Postpartum Depression in Dads: What It Actually Looks Like and What It Does to Your Relationship
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Postpartum Depression in Dads: What It Actually Looks Like and What It Does to Your Relationship

Postpartum depression in dads affects one in ten fathers and most cases go unidentified because it looks like a man who is handling everything. He tracks the appointments, answers every question about how you are doing and redirects when anyone asks about him. This post explains what that pattern does to the relationship and what changes when it finally gets named.

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We Only Talk About the Baby Now
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We Only Talk About the Baby Now

Most couples who come to couples therapy for new parents come because something shifted after the baby arrived and neither of them can name it. The same argument keeps landing in the same place no matter how many times they have it. This post explains the biology behind postpartum emotional disconnection in marriage and what actually changes when both partners are in the room together.

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All names and scenarios are fictional and used to illustrate common relationship dynamics.